Until I came across this truth I struggled with it. I wondered why in every relationship I eneterd my immediate desire was to help. I sought ways to help and when the help was not taken or rejected my thought was always ' can't he see that I'm just trying to help'?
It's not so easy to help a man so here's my 2 cents to both ladies and men:
Men- we ladies may not always use the best presentation or the right words but at the heart of it know this ' we're honestly only just trying to help'.
Ladies- you mustn't always have the last word, sometimes 'helping' means allowing him to make mistakes and supporting him through it not rubbing it in his face with statements like ' I told you so or if you had listened to me...'
(c) Iquo'Ma 2016
Have an awesome Monday guys!!!
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