Interfering or Fulfing Purpose???

Until I came across this truth I struggled with it. I wondered why in every relationship I eneterd my immediate desire was to help. I sought ways to help and when the help was not taken or rejected my thought was always ' can't he see that I'm just trying to help'?

It's not so easy to help a man so here's my 2 cents to both ladies and men:

Men- we ladies may not always use the best presentation or the right words but at the heart of it know this ' we're honestly only just trying to help'.

Ladies- you mustn't always have the last word, sometimes 'helping' means allowing him to make mistakes and supporting him through it not rubbing it in his face with statements like ' I told you so or if you had listened to me...'

(c) Iquo'Ma 2016
Have an awesome Monday guys!!!

Excerpts from a Book Review: Everything in the woman is designed to help...click and read more...

I bought the book 'Understanding the Power & Purposed of a Man' by late Dr Myles Munroe several years ago by recommendation. It would help you understand men better I was told! I didn't believe it so I allowed it to gather dust and learn from my life's experiences.

Today after several life experiences and no clear understanding of the strange species they (men) sometimes are, I decided to breeze through it during my early morning meditations...
All I can say is 'girl you should've read it a loooonnngg time ago'
but as long as there's life it's never too late...

So I'm going to be posting up the sentences, quotes and messages that spoke to me and impacted my thinking... I hope they bring light your way too...

Please Note I didn't read the WHOLE book... I'll leave that for the men... I do recommend it to them...and for the ladies you all need to read 'Understanding the Powder & Purpose of a Woman'...
It will revolutionize your thinking....

Happy weekend...
Much love

(c) 2016 Iquo'Ma

This is for people who still have one or 2 things to learn about relationships not for experts!! It's a New Understanding I got so I decided to share it!!

This is for those who like me are only now beginning to get a grasp on this whole relationship thing... If it blesses you please share with others!!! Have an awesome weekend guys! Muuaahhh

There can be no crown without a cross!! If you don't believe me ask those who are already wearing crowns...

We have spent too long rebuking God for trying to mold us... That attitude has to stop because those people you're trying to be like or looking up to have been through their own molding and making process...even the glorious vision you have for your future involves a moulding and making process...
Enjoy the process of being made thought it may be as hot as a fiery furnace and as uncomfortable as a crowd of thorns, Gods GRACE will see us through in Jesus name, Amen... Happy Thursday peeps

(C) 2016 Rosyyy