A LITTLE HELP!!!

Gen 50:20.....'you intended to harm me but God intended it for good...'

Everyone has experienced some form of betrayal, injustice, backstabbing, false allegations and the works. Such behavior can be found among children, teenagers, and adults of all ages. It is something that has been and unfortunately always will be.

There are many reasons why humans engage in such negative behavior: some do it to make them self feel better about them self, some out of jealousy and some out of spite and malicious intent to harm you...the list goes on...

It hurts the most when such negative actions and words come from family and friends because they are the ones you thought had your back no matter what.

What do you do when it happens or years after it has happened? How do you deal with the pain, the hurt, the anger, the frustration or the feeling of vengance?
How do you accept that they (whoever they may be in your own case) really meant to harm you and weren't acting out of ignorance? How do you move past the pain??

YOU LET IT GO!!!
Yep, simply 'LET IT GO'!!!

They helped you: believe it or not their actions gave you a little push in the direction of becoming great, becoming successful and becoming a better you.

How many times has a statement like 'you can't do it' motivated you into action? How many times has such statement pushed you to venture into a particular area just to prove them wrong only to find yourself succeeding there beyond your imagination and enjoying the journey?

Those people are destiny helpers!!! So what if their help didn't come in the usual or conventional way we expect or are accustomed to:

The bottom line is that their word or action spurred you into an action or serveral actions which is now beneficial to you. For that reason alone you ought to tell them THANK YOU FOR HELPING ME!!!